My fiancee is the Cuban-American artist, illustrator, and product designer Yolanda V. Fundora.
This is what I think she looks like.
This is what she thinks she looks like. This self-portrait was used as the cover illustration for Women Writing Culture, edited by Ruth Behar and Deborah A. Gordon (University of California Press, 1995), and the book includes an insightful essay on it.
This is what she thinks I look like.